Which of the Following Can't Be Found in Fancy Restaurants?
Szegedy-Maszak, Marianne
Which Of The Following Can't Be Found In Fancy Restaurants? a) Salmon With Dill b) Dom Perignon c) Waitresses Why feminists should picket Washington's fancy restaurants. by Marianne...
...There seems to be the feeling that if the payoff isn't big, it's not worth pursuing...
...The flexibility, the different shifts to accommodate children and family is there as it is not in most office jobs...
...It's so much a part of our culture as not to be noticed: the fancy restaurant that has everything except waitresses...
...Turn up the flame, and get the women into the Palm...
...In the Martin's Tavern case in Washington, the WLDF beat the Georgetown restaurant, forcing it to let seven women become waitresses and receive back pay...
...Both Friedan and Goldsmith say that the days of the women's movement parachuting into a particular sector and organizing are over...
...the hushed and exquisite Le Pavillon or Maison Blanche...
...The power restaurants are not Utopia, but they undoubtedly offer good jobs...
...The ones with the Yves Montand accents at Maison Blanche...
...And of course there's the cachet that draws all those Senior Partners to the corner tables in the first place...
...Cathy Enz, a business professor at the University of Indiana has a theory: "It is almost as if we operate under primitive notions of who is to provide food...
...You might be thinking that there's simple legal recourse...
...But what about the elegance, I asked...
...They'll come in and ask for a particular waiter—sometimes because they expect to be entertained, in other cases because they wish to impress a client, in other cases because these are extremely busy people who would just as soon not have their extremely valuable time taken up with inconsequential things like saying "I would like a Perrier" rather than "the usual ." No wonder turnover remains incredibly small...
...Would those Professional Democrats, Bob Strauss and Charles Manatt, still throw an arm around Mel if the cameras and the protestors were there...
...We have a great deal of faith in the ability of women...
...I don't want to waste my time," she said...
...But you can find women working the tables at places like the Kozy Korner Restaurant, right around the corner from the Palm...
...caterer, claiming that the company employed women only in food preparation, not food service...
...Outside organizers simply can't do it," Friedan says...
...Don't mourn, feminize And it's not just legal barriers that keep women out of the top restaurants...
...Walter Mondale and Elizabeth Taylor do not refuse to go to Dominique's because it has waitresses...
...Tommy Jacomo, the manager of the Palm, is a little more reticent when the subject of money comes up...
...To be sure, some feminists have taken them on...
...I'd hire them if I could," explained Mel Krupin, "but nobody applies ." The idea that no women apply to top restaurants is nonsense, says Judy Goldsmith, former president of the National Organization for Women...
...Sure, there have been a handful of successful lawsuits against power restaurants, but their numbers are few...
...I suspect that this simple obliviousness may explain much of why the movement doesn't make more of an issue of the dearth of women in power restaurants...
...In the face of that, restaurant owners would finally feel the pressure...
...The power restaurants of Washington are a battle ground where the women's movement just might be able to score an easy victory...
...She's quick to tell you that she sometimes makes $40 a day in tips for four hours of work...
...The power lawyers and power politicians, the power journalists and power lobbyists with power money sitting at that discreet table right near the pictures of the Redskins...
...He'll never get confirmed," he whispered...
...by Marianne Szegedy-Maszak The tuxedos...
...The best wise-cracking waiters at the Palm...
...It doesn't make any difference if I can do the job or not !' In those rare cases when women do apply, two things often happen: They are either told that there are no openings, or their applications are taken and they never hear back from the restaurant again...
...Why the attachment...
...It is not surprising that after years and decades of trying to get in, women have ceased trying," she says...
...That's what eating in most of Washington's power restaurants is all about...
...While self-reliance is a trait to be encouraged in each of us, it doesn't seem like the best cry of the women's movement which, in the tradition of the civil rights movement, has gone ahead and helped those who can't help themselves, whether they're rape victims or single parent families...
...When I first asked Betty Friedan about the absence of women at the top restaurants, she said: "You know, I never thought of that...
...And it's one that offers a few insights not only into class and culture but into the women's movement as well...
...The most important thing is that they must know their business and they do...
...No wonder a Labor Department study found that waiters across the country earned an average of $237 a week, while waitresses took home $168...
...But the reasons they offer for the lack of women are so unsatisfying that one wonders...
...More recently, the Women's Legal Defense Fund (WLDF) filed a class action suit on behalf of two waitresses against Ridgewell's, the toney D.C...
...Washington restaurateurs insist they don't discriminate on the basis of sex, which would be a violation not only of Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act but the 1963 Equal Pay Act and local civil rights ordinances...
...Mel Krupin's has waiters who have worked there for ten years, the Palm for 14 years, Maison Blanche for nine years...
...This is not the Stone Age...
...But she acknowledges that the applications haven't been rolling in...
...And these jobs are attractive for reasons besides the big bucks...
...If one wants proof that women can handle the demands of the top restaurants without dropping the silver, one need only look at those top restaurants that do have them...
...Then there's the It's-Not-A-Big-Enough-Deal approach, the contention that federal legislation like abortion rights and alimony reform are where the attention should be...
...But that is not so easy...
...They are attentive, they are responsive, the public does not complain, they like them...
...If, after a preliminary hearing, it was decided that the case should be pursued, there would be an investigation lasting four to six months...
...Liberals would buckle, and I suspect that GOP diners wouldn't be exempt from becoming red in the face either...
...Who knows what subconscious ghosts in us cry out for a male waiter...
...That's a lot of tips forsaken for a hunch...
...If women had the talent and training that we require, they would be among those that we hired" And in an odd way customers are to blame since they fuel the slow turnover that keeps openings few...
...Waitresses are obviously not in the same predicament, but neither are they flush with cash and time to organize themselves...
...They are absolutely great," Weiss said...
...Nancy Reagan couldn't risk the embarrassment...
...Depending on the results of the investigation, there might be yet another hearing four to six months later...
...These are beautiful places, whether it's the studied casualness at the Palm or the deep banquettes at Lion d'Or...
...The heat's on anyone who joins an all male club...
...Young lady," he replied in his German accent, sounding like the bartender in Casablanca...
...For those graying and distinguished gentlemen who wait in the power restaurants, $237 can be the tip on a dinner for eight even if their customers pass up the Martell Napoleon with their Baked Alaska...
...Women are so often attached to providing food that when a man RS doing it, it is, well, kind of awe inspiring ." One would assume that with the chance to get rid of some of that awe and to tame an all-male setting, feminists would go after the power restaurants with glee...
...That plus her paycheck of about $25 a week will bring her just under $12,000 a year...
...The problem is circular and it's as true for blacks as it is for women," said Phyllis Richman, a restaurant critic for The Washington Post...
...Would Ethel Kennedy, Eunice Shriver, or Ben Bradlee, regular patrons of Maison Blanche, still eat there if there was a women's protest outside...
...That plus a minimum wage salary, health benefits, a pension plan, and profit sharing makes the Palm, in Jacomo's words, "a dream job for a waiter...
...Utopia...
...In her early thirties, she's waited tables for more than ten years in Washington and New York...
...Certain personalities of a restaurant can carry it, others can't," Jacomo says...
...Is New York's powerful 21 Club less powerful because it has waitresses...
...The WLDF, plantiffs' attorney in the Martin's Tavern case, even puts out The Waitresses Rights Handbook complete with an introduction from Rhea Pearlman, who plays a feisty waitress on "Cheers ." But other feminists are rich with reasons not to put the power restaurants high on the agenda...
...Every city's got one, especially Washington, where you won't see waitresses at the rough-and-tumble, meat-and-potatoes enclaves like Joe and Mo's, Duke Zeibert's, Mel Krupin's, Gary's, or the Palm...
...It's a foregone conclusion that they don't hire women because you go into these places and you see only men...
...While 86 percent of the 1.5 million people who wait tables in the United States are women, there aren't that many women who can make the $40,000 a year that waiters can take in at the Palm...
...In 1974, the New York Civil Liberties Union won a lawsuit against 11 premier New York restaurants, including such venerables as Cote Basque, 21 Club, and Lutece, forcing them to hire the plaintiffs...
...They make more than your boss," said Michael Bartlett, editor-in-chief of Restaurants and Institutions...
...And then things would start to change...
...Tell Bonnie, who has hauled turkey platters for 40 years, that she doesn't have the muscles to carry pheasant...
...You could do a lot worse, and most women do...
...I would wonder if I went to the Playboy Club and saw a guy wearing a rabbit's outfit ." And as Garth Weldon, manager of the Prime Rib told The Washington Times: "All our applicants are male...
...The soft, diffused lighting that makes almost anyone look attractive...
...Power restaurateurs can point to the dearth of applications from women...
...But the issue is not in the forefront of their raised consciousness...
...What's the difference between a Dom Perignon and a Taittinger...
...A dream job for a waiter...
...Generally, few people bring employment discrimination claims, not because there is no employment discrimination but because it is a big hassle to carry them through," said Donna Lenhoff of the WLDF...
...The OHR reports that of the 21 complaints brought against area restaurants between 1985 and 1987, ten were brought by women, but none led to a reinstatement...
...It takes extraordinary interest in an issue to bring that issue to public attention," said Goldsmith...
...The Icelandic Arctic Char special...
...They are absolutely wonderful," said Walter Weiss, the 21 Club's maitre d' and a man who is happy to answer questions...
...I don't know if wearing a tuxedo bothers [women] or what ?' A frequent refrain is that "women can't carry the trays...
...But maybe not...
...The hot issues right now, for instance, for the National Women's Political Caucus, are the Family and Medical Leave Act and the Act for Better Child Care—not waitresses...
...They explain the absence of women with reasons ranging from the Freudian ("women can't cope with the pressure [of working in a French restaurant] as well as men," one told the Post) to the almost semiotic logic of the Palm's Jacomo...
...Bonnie's biceps Why aren't there women at the power restaurants...
...The company denied discrimination, but settled out of court for an undisclosed sum, said to be close to $1 million as dozens of women were compensated for back pay...
...A few well-placed pickets, a couple of press releases, and you would have TV cameras and klieg lights on K Street...
...One reason is the The Eighties-SelfReliance line: Waitresses have to rally themselves...
...First, there's the money...
...The perfectly timed courses...
...He estimates that his guys bring home "somewhere-around-seveneighthundred-a-week but I really can't discuss it...
...As a group, waitresses generally don't have a lot of time and money to be running to court...
...They're not on the menu at Marianne Szegedy-Maszak is a Washington writer...
...There you can have your steaming, roast turkey special ($5.75 including stuffing, potatoes, vegetable, roll, and butter) served up by Bernice ("but everybody calls me Bonnie") Stone, a waitress "in town for 46 years this August 12...
...The issue must be widespread, nationwide, coherent, and in the public eye over a sustained period of time for that issue to take hold...
...it singes anyone who mutters a sexist syllable...
...There's the chance to mingle with the power types in the evening or take home a little of that Icelandic salmon after hours...
...The waitresses simply try another place, with no proof that they have been discriminated against...
...That's certainly true of Gail Larocca...
...The question of why women haven't moved into the top restaurant jobs doesn't rank with suffrage, but it's a problem nonetheless...
...They need experience to apply to these res-' taurants that they can only find in the restaurants that won't hire them in the first place...
...Any waitress that wanted to would have to apply for the job, then file a complaint at the Equal Employment Opportunity Office, and cross-file the same complaint at the District's Office of Human Rights...
...I think that waitresses should begin to organize and then start filing more aggressive class action suits," says Betty Friedan, as if explaining for the thirteenth time how to make scrambled eggs to a hapless male...
...Could you still look inside the Palm and see Martin Peretz, owner of The New Republic, or Mel Krupin's and see Donald Graham, publisher of The Washington Post...
...Paula Callacappa, the director of personnel for the 21 Club, said that only one in ten of their applicants are women...
...There's the Catch-22 of skills: You need them to work in the top restaurants, but you can't get them without having worked in the top restaurants...
...How do you filet a Dover sole a la French Service...
...What's the proper wine with malco...
...Only a few waitresses can have the benefit of pro bono attorneys fighting for their rights...
...That would not only get the word out for more waitresses to apply for these jobs but, more importantly, it would shame those liberal politicians and reporters who eat at the power restaurants...
...The all-male fleet of waiters that makes you wonder whatever happened to Title VII of the 1964 Civil Rights Act...
...This was echoed by Ann Hartley, a co-owner of Maison Blanche...
Vol. 20 • May 1988 • No. 4
