A right to marry? Same-sex marriage and constitutional law
NUSSIBAUM, MARTHA
ARTICLES A right to marry? SAME-SEX MARRIAGE AND CONSTITUTIONAL LAW MARTHA NUSSBAUM Marriage is both ubiquitous and central. All across our country, in every region, every social class,...
...The California and Connecticut opinions examine carefully the main contenders, concluding that none rises to the level of a compelling interest...
...Even if people have been married by their church or religious group, they are not married in the sense that really counts for social and political purposes unless they have been granted a marriage license by the state...
...The rise of divorce in the modern era, moreover, was spurred not by a hatred of marriage but, far more, by a high conception of what marriage ought to be...
...If the arguments are moral rather than doctrinal, they fare better, but we still have to ask whether they are compatible with core values of a society dedicated to giving all citizens the equal protection of the laws...
...On this view, the state has to show that the law forbidding such unions really is supported by a strong public interest...
...We do not, however, agree that these beliefs, by themselves, are sufficient grounds for legal regulation...
...And does it require the state to recognize or validate unions approved by religious bodies...
...The health risk involved is no greater than in many cases where marriage is permitted...
...American Roman Catholics, both lay and clergy, are divided, although the church hierarchy is strongly opposed...
...Analyzing this issue will help us understand what is happening in our country, and where we might go from here...
...Nonetheless, it's clear that if a brother-sister couple challenged such a restriction today on due process/equal protection grounds, they would lose, because the state's alleged (health) interest in forbidding such unions would prevail...
...Nonetheless, it seems to most people that the state, by giving a marriage license, expresses approval, and, by withholding it, disapproval...
...The politics of humanity seems to require us to agree with her...
...The only distinction between unworthy heterosexuals and the class of gays and lesbians that can possibly explain the difference in people's reaction is that the sex acts of the former do not disgust the majority, whereas the sex acts of the latter do...
...All the major cases, then, turn on the denial to a particular group of people of an institutional package already available to others...
...Before courts can sort out the issue of same-sex marriage, they have to figure out two things: (1) what is this "right to marry...
...heat does not spill over into the public realm...
...None of the other preferred policy considerations (the familiar ones we have already identified) stands up as sufficiently strong...
...We need to come to our senses and return to the rules that used to make us all happy...
...There is indeed something odd about the mixture of casualness and solemnity with which the state behaves as a marrying agent...
...Similarly, including in the Hall of Fame baseball players who got their records by cheating on the drug rules would contaminate the Hall of Fame, cheapening the real achievements of others...
...A man who showed up with a "wife" in tow was not likely to encounter a background check to find out whether he had ever been legally divorced from a former spouse...
...Put this way, the argument, again, offers a legitimate public reason to favor and support heterosexual marriage, though it is less clear why it gives a reason to restrict same-sex marriage (and marriages of those too old to have children or not desiring children...
...Mainline Protestant denominations are divided on the issue, although some have taken negative positions...
...Quintus said to me, "There...
...Under any state of the law, religions would be free to marry or not marry same-sex couples...
...Nor do people even have to lead a sexual lifestyle of the type the majority prefers in order to get married...
...Insofar as monogamy was reality, we should never forget that it rested on the disenfranchisement of women...
...Others have taken a friendly position toward these unions...
...It's only that once it does so, it must do so with an even hand...
...The Massachusetts court notes that the two guarantees frequently "overlap, as they do here...
...Public health regulations license butchers who cut up pigs for human consumption...
...This is the sort of thing I have to put up with every day...
...The primary state interest that is strong enough to justify legal restriction is an interest in the equality of the sexes, which would not tell against a regime of sex-equal polygamy...
...Those who insist so strongly on procreation do not feel sullied or demeaned or tainted by the presence next door of two opposite-sex seventyyear-olds newly married, nor by the presence of opposite-sex couples who publicly announce their intention never to have children-or, indeed, by opposite-sex couples who have adopted children...
...Nonetheless, when people ask themselves what the content of marriage is, they typically think of this cluster of things...
...Protecting an institution that serves these purposes is a legitimate public interest, and so there is a legitimate public interest in supporting potentially procreative marriages...
...That sort of state interference with marriage is, apparently, unconstitutional on due process as well as equal protection grounds...
...There is no evidence, however, that opposite-sex couples do better than same-sex couples...
...The full inclusion of same-sex couples is in one sense a large change, just as official recognition of interracial marriage was a large change, and just as the full inclusion of women and African Americans as voters and citizens was a large change...
...First, assuming that granting a marriage license expresses a type of public approval, should the state be in the business of expressing favor for, or dignifying, some unions rather than others...
...We should all agree that the procreation, protection, and safe rearing of children are important public purposes...
...Regulations on incestuous unions have also typically been thought to be reasonable exercises of state power, although, here again, the state interests have been defined very vaguely...
...Recent state court decisions had to answer four questions (using not only federal constitutional law but also the text and tradition of their own state constitutions): First, will civil unions suffice, or is the status of marriage constitutionally compelled...
...So thought the Supreme Court of Connecticut in October 2008, saying, Beyond moral disapprobation, gay persons also face virulent homophobia that rests on nothing more than feelings of revulsion toward gay persons and the intimate sexual conduct with which they are associated...
...At one point the Court mentions, as an additional factor, that the inmate may some day be released, so that the marriage might be consummated, but that is clearly not the basis of the holding...
...In large numbers, they do have and raise children...
...But the minute voting is offered, it is unconstitutional to fence out a group of people from the exercise of the right...
...Moreover, Roman marriages were typically not monogamous, at least on the side of the male, who was expected to have sexual relations with both males and females of lower status (slaves, prostitutes...
...To get this privileged treatment under law people do not have to show that they are good people...
...Third, in assessing the putative right against the countervailing claims of state interest, is sexual orientation a suspect classification for equal protection purposes...
...It is not clear, however, that we have ever thought these important purposes best served by restricting marriage to the potentially procreative...
...Who has the right...
...and, of course, tighter enforcement of child-support laws...
...Each of these important aspects of human life, in turn, can exist outside of marriage, and they can even exist all together outside of marriage, as is evident from the fact that many unmarried couples live lives of intimacy, friendship, and mutual responsibility, and have and raise children...
...Should government continue to marry people at all...
...For all these expressive reasons, it seems that civil unions are a kind of second-class status, lacking the affirmation and recognition characteristic of marriage...
...Now, the story goes, things are falling apart...
...We should draw the same conclusion about the prohibition of same-sex marriage: irrational ideas of stigma and contamination, the sort of "animus" the Court recognized in Romer v. Evans, is a powerful force in its support...
...It is here that the difference between civil unions and marriage resides, and it is this aspect that is at issue when same-sex couples see the compromise offer of civil unions as stigmatizing and degrading...
...MYTH OF THE GOLDEN AGE When people talk about the institution of marriage, they often wax nostalgic...
...some jobs can be filled by appointment...
...But nobody believes that Jews have a right to ask the state to impose their religiously grounded preference on all citizens...
...Zablocki allows that "reasonable regulations that do not significantly interfere with decisions to enter into the marital relationship may legitimately be imposed," but concludes that the Wisconsin law goes too far, violating rights guaranteed by the Due Process clause...
...People are entitled to demand this from their marriages, he argues, and entitled to divorce if they do not find it...
...The California and Connecticut courts, by contrast, held that sexual orientation is a suspect classification, analogizing sexual orientation to gender...
...Nor does any other case suggest that the elderly or the sterile do not have the right...
...immigration rights...
...At the other extreme, it is also clear that the liberty and equality rights involved in the right to marry do not belong only to the potentially procreative...
...President, throughout the annals of human experience, in dozens of civilizations and cultures of varying value systems, humanity has discovered that the permanent relationship between men and women is a keystone to the stability, strength, and health of human society-a relationship worthy of legal recognition and judicial protection...
...The first and most widespread objection to same-sex marriage is that it is immoral and unnatural...
...We hardly find a major Roman figure, male or female, who did not marry at least twice...
...Laws against miscegenation were in force in sixteen states at the time of Loving...
...But the nonrecognition faced by same-sex couples does have a major historical precedent...
...It is a key to the pursuit of happiness, something people aspire to-and keep aspiring to, again and again, even when their experience has been far from happy...
...What does the "right to marry" mean...
...Mildred Jeter (African American) and Richard Loving (white) got married in Washington, D. C., in 1958...
...Is the right to marry, then, merely a nondiscrimination right...
...But states in the United States have typically used that power to compete with one another, and marriage quickly became a scene of competition...
...We used to live in that golden age of marital purity...
...The expressive dimension of marriage raises several distinct questions...
...Fourth, what interests might so qualify...
...This is less clear...
...The Old Order Amish don't want their children to attend public school past age fourteen, holding that such schooling is destructive of community...
...when the well-being of children is assessed in a religiously neutral way, there is no difference...
...The best way of summarizing the tradition seems to be this: all adults have a right to choose whom to marry...
...Many marriages that are approved by religious bodies are not approved by the state, as the case of same-sex marriage has long shown us, and nobody has thought it promising to contest these denials on constitutional grounds...
...Given all this, it seems odd to suggest that in marrying people the state affirmatively expresses its approval or confers dignity...
...If we were to study heterosexual divorce, we would be unlikely to find even a single case in which the parties felt that their divorce was caused by the availability of marriage to same-sex couples...
...They all go in to lunch, except for Pomponia, who goes straight to her room...
...Typically, we understand that some beliefs (including some but not all moral commitments) can generate public arguments that bear on the lives of all citizens in a decent society, while others generate only intrareligious arguments...
...The idea that same-sex unions will sully traditional marriage cannot be understood without moving to the terrain of disgust and contamination...
...This fact provides further reason to doubt that such prejudice soon can be eliminated and underscores the reality that gay persons face unique challenges to their political and social integration...
...It is difficult to cast such arguments in a form that could be accepted by citizens whose religion teaches something different...
...Certainly for the founders of the United States the Roman Republic was a key source of both political norms and personal heroes...
...In fact, the states that have legalized same-sex marriage, Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, and Vermont, have among the lowest divorce rates in the nation, and the Massachusetts evidence shows that the rate has not risen as a result of the legalization...
...At the time of Loving v. Virginia, in 1967, sixteen states both prohibited and punished marriages across racial lines...
...Are there any good public reasons for the state to be in the marriage business at all, rather than the civil union business...
...A later case, Zablocki v. Redhail, recognizes the right to marry as a fundamental right for Fourteenth Amendment purposes, apparently under the Equal Protection clause...
...What state interests lie on the other side...
...They look like Jewish arguments against the eating of pork: good reasons for members of some religions not to engage in same-sex marriage, but not sufficient reasons for making them illegal in a pluralistic society...
...The statement made by the marrying couple is usually seen as involving an answering statement on the part of society: we declare our love and commitment, and society, in response, recognizes and dignifies that commitment...
...What they are solemnizing (when there is a license granted by the state) is, however, not only a religious ritual, but also a public rite of passage, the entry into a privileged civic status...
...For many people, a marriage is not complete unless it has been solemnized by the relevant authorities in their religion, according to the rules of the religion...
...Pedophiles, sadists, masochists, sodomites, transsexuals-all can get married by the state, so long as they marry someone of the opposite sex...
...It is not about whether same-sex relationships can involve the content of marriage: few would deny that gays and lesbians are capable of friendship, intimacy, "meet and happy conversation," and mutual responsibility, nor that they can have and raise children (whether their own from a previous marriage, children created within their relationship by surrogacy or artificial insemination, or adopted children...
...How strong...
...Government cannot exclude any group of citizens from the civil benefits or the expressive dignities of marriage without a compelling public interest...
...This position, which I've called "minimal," is not so minimal when one looks into it...
...We might also pause, for reasons I have already given, before granting that an increase in the divorce rate signals social degeneration...
...Pointing to rising divorce rates and evidence that children are being damaged by lack of parental support, people say that we need to defend traditional marriage, not undermine it by opening the institution to those who don't have any concern for its traditional purposes...
...Cicero is out in the country, on one of his estates, and his brother has (it seems) dragged his unwilling wife away from the city to spend a week on the farm-with a brother-in-law who doesn't like her and who, despite his undoubted greatness, is more than a little self-obsessed: When we arrived there Quintus said in the kindest way, "Pomponia, will you ask the women in...
...The right to marry does not belong only to the potentially procreative...
...Put in terms of our three categories, then, does the "right to marry" obligate a state to offer a set of economic and civil benefits to married people...
...Similarly in this case, we must ask whether the arguments against same-sex marriage are expressed in a neutral and sharable language or only in a sectarian doctrinal language...
...Does this mean there is also a public interest in restricting marriage to only those cases where there may be procreation...
...Like most Golden Age myths, this one contains a core of truth: commitment and responsibility are under strain in our culture, and too many children are indeed growing up without enough economic or emotional support...
...A third argument is that if same-sex marriage receives state approval, people who believe it to be evil will be forced to "bless" or approve of it, thus violating their conscience...
...A fourth argument, again appealing to a legitimate public purpose, focuses on the difficulties that traditional marriage seems to be facing in our society...
...Given that divorce, until rather recently, was hard to obtain, and given that America offered so much space for relocation and the reinvention of self, many individuals, both male and female, simply moved away and started life somewhere else...
...But marriage, it soon becomes evident, is no single thing...
...This has been said repeatedly in cases dealing with the marriage right...
...The Supreme Court case that overturned the antimiscegenation laws, Loving v. Virginia, focused on this issue...
...Still other denominations and religions (Southern Baptists, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints) seem to be strongly opposed collectively...
...Marriage has, second, an expressive aspect...
...We could begin by contesting the characterization of same-sex couples...
...People lived by those rules and were happy...
...The cases of separation that did end up in court were the tip of a vast, uncharted iceberg...
...In Meyer v. Nebraska, for example, the Court says that the liberty protected by that Clause "without doubt.denotes not merely freedom from bodily restraint but also the right of the individual to contract, to engage in any of the common occupations of life, to acquire useful knowledge, to marry, establish a home and bring up children, to worship God according to the dictates of his own conscience, and generally to enjoy those privileges long recognized.as essential to the orderly pursuit of happiness by free men...
...But if such factors are salient, denial of marriage to same-sex couples is hardly the way to address them...
...All three courts draw on the miscegenation cases to make this point...
...In other words, does the state forbidding such unions have to show a mere rational basis for the law or a "compelling" state interest...
...the spousal privilege exemption when giving testimony in court...
...Such questions, the penumbra of any constitutional debate, require us to identify the vital rights and interests that need state protection and to think how to protect them without impermissibly infringing either equality or individual liberty...
...I incline to the former view...
...The federal Defense of Marriage Act has made it clear that states need not give legal recognition to marriages legally contracted elsewhere...
...Their marriage certificate was hanging on the wall over their bed...
...The case rested on the emotional support provided by marriage and its religious and spiritual significance...
...Or should we think that they don't have the right at all, given the nature of their choices...
...Although some religions urge premarital counseling and refuse to marry people who seem ill-prepared for marriage, the state does not turn such people away...
...We should view this change in the same way...
...Fried does not suggest that the recognition of samesex marriage would violate the Free Exercise clause of the First Amendment-and that would be an implausible position to take...
...This result has been seen by the same-sex community as deeply degrading...
...The legal arguments against polygamy, however, are extremely weak...
...The Massachusetts court notes, for example, that people who cannot stir from their deathbed are still permitted to marry...
...This right is fundamental for Due Process purposes, and it also has an equality dimension...
...All agree that, as currently practiced, marriage is a status with a strong component of public dignity...
...The Massachusetts court held that the denial of same-sex marriages fails to pass even the rational basis test...
...The right to the free exercise of religion clearly does not require the state to approve all marriages a religious body approves...
...Well, you can tell her for me that her whole conduct was lacking in sympathy...
...Nothing short of a primitive idea of stigma and taint can explain the widespread feeling that same-sex marriage defiles or contaminates straight marriage, while the marriages of "immoral" and "sinful" heterosexuals do not do so...
...Both what he said and his intention and manner were perfectly pleasant, at least it seemed so to me...
...The argument in favor of same-sex marriage is straightforward: if two people want to make a commitment of the marital sort, they should be permitted to do so, and excluding one class of citizens from the benefits and dignity of that commitment demeans them and insults their dignity...
...What is the same-sex marriage debate about...
...But the opinions, I believe, should convince a reasonable person that constitutional law, and therefore courts, have a legitimate role to play in this divisive area, at least sometimes, standing up for minorities who are at risk in the majoritarian political process...
...Does it obligate a state to confer dignity and status on certain unions by the use of the term "marriage...
...The public debate, instead, is primarily about the expressive aspects of marriage...
...Again and again, psychological studies have shown that children do best when they have love and support, and it appears that two-parent households do better at that job than single-parent households...
...In 2007, on the fortieth anniversary of that decision, Jeter Loving issued a rare public statement, saying that she saw the struggle she and her late husband waged as similar to the struggle of same-sex couples today: My generation was bitterly divided over something that should have been so clear and right...
...If the arguer should add that sterile heterosexual marriages somehow support the efforts of the procreative, we can reply that gay and lesbian couples who don't have or raise children may support, similarly, the work of procreative couples...
...Many societies have embraced various forms of polygamy, informal or common-law marriage, and sequential monogamy...
...If white people felt disgusted and contaminated by the thought that a black person had drunk from the same public drinking fountain or swum in the same public swimming pool or used the same toilet or the same plates and glasses-all views widely held by southern whites-we can see that the thought of sex and marriage between black and white would have carried a powerful freight of revulsion...
...So it has been in many societies throughout history...
...The objector at this point typically makes a further move...
...People who base their ethical norms on the Bible too rarely take note of the fact that the society depicted in the Old Testament is polygamous...
...Turner v. Safley, similarly, determines that the restriction of prisoner marriages violates the Due Process clause's privacy right...
...Children are growing up without sufficient guidance, support, and love, as adults live for selfish pleasure alone...
...But somehow, without even knowing anything about the character or intentions of the same-sex couple next door, they think their own marriages would be sullied by public recognition of that union...
...that bad temper, incompatibility, and divergent desires are no invention of the sexual revolution...
...The right to marry is frequently classified with fundamental personal liberties protected by the Due Process clause of the Fourteenth Amendment...
...We have never limited marriage to the fertile or even to those of an age to be fertile...
...Charles Fried, Modern Liberty: and the Limits of Government (New York: W.W...
...It confers and administers benefits...
...All three courts invoke both due process and equal protection...
...Should it back away from package deals entirely, in favor of a regime of disaggregated benefits and private contract...
...So the feeling of undermining, or demeaning, cannot honestly be explained by the point about children and must be explained instead by other, more subterranean, ideas...
...On a minimal understanding, it just means that if the state chooses to offer a particular package of expressive and/or civil benefits under the name "marriage," it must make that package available to all who seek it without discrimination (though here "all" will require further interpretation...
...If the proposal were to restrict marriage to worthy people who have passed a character test, it would at least be consistent, though few would support such an intrusive regime...
...There is a widespread feeling that these results can't be right, that living in an "immoral" atmosphere must be bad for the child...
...The majority believed.that it was God's plan to keep people apart, and that government should discriminate against people in love...
...But.[t]he older generation's fears and prejudices have given way, and today's young people realize that if someone loves someone they have a right to marry...
...They do not seem impressive...
...Here the states diverge...
...Three states that have recently confronted this question-Massachusetts, California, and Connecticut-give different answers to these questions, but there is a large measure of agreement...
...How should we think of these cases...
...We have now seen the arguments against same-sex marriage...
...In the European countries that have legalized same-sex marriage, divorce rates appear to be roughly the same as among heterosexual couples...
...Susan Treggiari, Roman Marriage (Oxford University Press, 1991...
...For quite a stretch of time, Indiana (surprisingly) was the divorce haven for couples fleeing the strict requirements of states such as New York (one of the strictest until a few decades ago) and Wisconsin...
...Loving concerned the exclusion of interracial couples from the institution...
...To be told "You cannot get married" is thus to be excluded from one of the defining rituals of the American life cycle...
...and yet others...
...When they returned, there they were arrested in the middle of the night in their own bedroom...
...Before we approach the issue of same-sex marriage, we must define marriage...
...A woman who arrived calling herself "the Widow Jones" would not be asked to show her husband's death certificate before she could form a new relationship and marry...
...When people get married, they typically make a statement of love and commitment in front of witnesses...
...Throughout the nineteenth and early twentieth centuries, a distinctive feature of American marriage was the strategic use of federalism...
...What the cases consistently hold is that when the state does offer a status that has both civil benefits and expressive dignity, it must offer it with an even hand...
...WHAT IS THE "RIGHT TO MARRY...
...decisional and visitation rights in health care and burial...
...Another pertinent early case, Skinner v. Oklahoma, invalidated a law mandating the compulsory sterilization of the "habitual criminal," saying that such a person, being cut off from "marriage and procreation," would be "forever deprived of a basic liberty...
...Some denominations-Unitarian Universalism, the United Church of Christ, and Reform and Conservative Judaism-have endorsed marriage for same-sex couples...
...The talk of marriage as a "fundamental right," together with the fact that most of these decisions mingle equal protection analysis with due process considerations, suggests, however, that something further is being said...
...Similar arguments were widespread in the antimiscegenation debate, and, in both cases, these arguments are typically made in a sectarian and doctrinal way, referring to religious texts...
...Hendrik Hartog, Man and Wife in America: A History (Harvard University Press, 2000...
...More recently, Iowa and Vermont have legalized same-sex marriage, the former through judicial interpretation of the state constitution, the latter through legislation...
...This essay is adapted from her From Disgust to Humanity: Sexual Orientation and the Constitution, which will be published by Oxford University Press in February 2010...
...Thus, observant Jews abhor the eating of pork, but few if any would think that this religiously grounded abhorrence is a reason to make the eating of pork illegal...
...Her words and manner were so gratuitously rude...
...When women are able to leave, they demand a better deal...
...A more recent case, Turner v. Safley, invalidated a prohibition on marriages by prison inmates...
...In fact, there is no better antidote to the myth of marital purity than to read Cicero's account of the unhappy marriage of his brother Quintus to Pomponia Attica, the sister of his best friend, Atticus...
...The prohibition of same-sex marriage does not...
...Government plays a key role in all three aspects of marriage...
...Marriage has, first, a civil rights aspect...
...There is no single "religious" position on these unions in America today, but the heat of those debates is, typically, denominational...
...Should we think that these individuals have a right to marry as they choose, but that the state has a countervailing interest that prevails...
...We have chosen not to take that route, and for good reasons...
...In November 2008, Californians passed Proposition 8, a referendum that removed the right to marry from same-sex couples who had been granted that right by the courts...
...Nor is the meaning of marriage single...
...First, does each argument really justify legal restriction of same-sex marriage or only some peoples' attitudes of moral and religious disapproval...
...Most of the major religions have their own internal debates, frequently heated, over the status of same-sex unions...
...The norm, however, like most norms in all times and places, was not the same as the reality...
...In the United States, however, as in most modern nations, government holds those keys...
...Nor does the "right to marry" obligate the state to offer any particular package of civil benefits to people who marry...
...Such visceral prejudice is reflected in the large number of hate crimes that are perpetrated against gay persons..The irrational nature of the prejudice directed at gay persons, who ``are ridiculed, ostracized, despised, demonized and condemned "merely for being who they are".is entirely different in kind than the prejudice suffered by other groups that previously have been denied suspect or quasi-suspect class status...
...But nobody would think that the Amish have a right to expect the state to make public schooling past age fourteen off-limits for all children...
...One reason for this custom was that women were secluded and uneducated, thus not able to share a man's political and intellectual aspirations...
...Typical, if somewhat rhetorical, is this statement by Senator Robert Byrd of West Virginia during the debates over the "Defense of Marriage" Act: Mr...
...They left, but began the litigation that led to the landmark 1967 decision...
...Quintus has some food sent up to her, which she refuses.] In a word, I felt my brother could not have been more forbearing nor your sister ruder...
...They have this right because of the emotional and personal significance of marriage, as well as its procreative potential...
...It's also that Christians began insisting-just like those ancient Romans-that marriage was about much more than procreation and sexual relations...
...The judge then told them either to leave the state for twenty-five years or to spend one year in jail...
...But the existence of creeps among the heterosexuals has never stopped the state from marrying heterosexuals...
...Second, if there are good reasons, what are the arguments for and against admitting same-sex couples to that status, and how should we think about them...
...But let us concede, for the sake of argument, that there is a social problem...
...We have always granted marriage licenses to sterile people, people too old to have children, irresponsible people, and people incapable of love and friendship...
...strengthening laws against domestic violence and enforcing them better...
...Would it violate the Constitution if a state decided that it would offer only civil unions and drop the status of marriage, leaving that for religious and private bodies...
...Traditional marriage has its share of creeps, and there are same-sex creeps as well...
...and (2) who has it...
...The institution of marriage houses and supports several distinct aspects of human life: sexual relations, friendship and companionship, love, conversation, procreation and child-rearing, and mutual responsibility...
...The prohibition rests on religious texts that not all citizens embrace, and it cannot be translated into a public argument that people of all religions can accept...
...Clergy are always among those entitled to perform legally binding marriages...
...What is clear is that those who make this argument don't fret about the way in which unworthy or immoral heterosexuals could sully the institution of marriage or lower its value...
...Its main problem, however, is with the facts...
...Cass R. Sunstein, "The Right to Marry," Cardozo Law Review 26 (2005), 2081-2120...
...The following day, Quintus has a talk with his brother.] He told me that Pomponia had refused to sleep with him, and that her attitude when he left the house was just as I had seen it the day before...
...Marriage has, finally, a religious aspect...
...Many legal aspects of our history of racial and genderbased discrimination were defended by secular moral arguments, but that did not insulate them from constitutional scrutiny...
...Andrew Koppelman, Same Sex, Different States: When Same-Sex Marriages Cross State Lines (Yale University Press, 2006...
...Indeed, it did not hide its hand: the idea of racial purity was proudly proclaimed (for example, in the Racial Integrity Act of 1924 in Virginia), and ideas of taint and contamination were ubiquitous...
...Nor can discrimination be justified simply on the grounds that legislators have strong convictions...
...John Milton's famous defense of divorce on grounds of incompatibility emphasizes "meet and happy conversation" as the central goal of marriage and notes that marriage ought to fulfill not simply bodily drives but also the "intellectual and innocent desire" that leads people to want to talk a lot to each other...
...In hindsight, however, we can see that disgust was at work...
...The interest in preventing child abuse would justify a ban on most cases of parent-child incest, but it's unclear that there is any strong state interest that should block adult brothers and sisters from marrying...
...Craig Williams, Roman Homosexuality (Oxford University Press, 1999...
...The state respects that choicefor Amish children...
...If the arguer should reply that marriage between two people of the same sex cannot result in the procreation of children, and so must be a kind of sham marriage, which insults or parodies, and thus demeans, the real sort of marriage, we are back to the second argument...
...Divorce is ubiquitous...
...In Virginia, a typical example, such a marriage was a felony punishable by from one to five years in prison...
...They want to get married for reasons very similar to those of heterosexuals: to express love and commitment, to gain religious sanctification for their union, to obtain a package of civil benefits-and, often, to have or raise children...
...In our constitutional tradition, there is frequent talk of a "right to marry...
...The Supreme Court concluded that such ideas of racial stigma were the only ideas that really supported those laws, whatever else was said: "There is patently no legitimate overriding purpose independent of invidious racial discrimination which justifies this classification...
...In many other ancient societies, and some modern ones, sex outside marriage was, or is, a routine matter: in ancient Greece, for example, married men routinely had socially approved sexual relationships with prostitutes (male and female) and, with numerous restrictions, younger male citizens...
...If we ever did think like this, we certainly haven't done anything about it...
...Like same-sex marriages, cross-racial unions were opposed with a variety of arguments, both political and theological...
...Again, the issue turns on equality...
...PANIC OVER SAME-SEX MARRIAGE As we do that, we need to keep two questions firmly in mind...
...We live in a country in which people have a wide range of different religious beliefs, and we agree in respecting the space within which people pursue those beliefs...
...If so, the state is not required to offer marriages at all...
...Marriages can exist without each of these...
...Studying the reality of marital discord and separation is very difficult, because many if not most broken marriages were not formally terminated by divorce...
...Nowhere, however, has the Court held that a state must offer the expressive benefits of marriage...
...Updated edition forthcoming, 2009...
...Public education teaches things that many religious parents abhor (such as evolution and the equality of women...
...Whatever one thinks about the moral issues involved in polygamy, our constitutional tradition has upheld a law making polygamy criminal, so it is clear, at present, that polygamous unions do not have equal recognition...
...Jews don't want to be associated with this practice...
...Marriage, for them as for others parents, provides a clear framework of entitlements and responsibilities, as well as security, legitimacy, and social standing for their children...
...Married people get a lot of government benefits that the unmarried usually do not get: favorable treatment in tax, inheritance, and insurance status...
...It is plural in both content and meaning...
...Second, we must ask whether each argument justifies its conclusion or whether there is reason to see the argument as a rationalization of some deeper sort of anxiety or aversion...
...This argument was recently made in an influential way by Charles Fried in Modern Liberty and the Limits of Government...
...When women had no rights, no marketable skills, and hence no exit options, they often had to put up with bad marriages, with adultery, neglect, even with domestic violence...
...I've never heard anyone say that the state's willingness to marry Britney Spears or O. J. Simpson demeans or sullies their own marriage...
...The shock of seeing our own face in the mirror of Cicero's intimate narrative reminds us that human beings always have a hard time sustaining love and even friendship...
...The most casual whim may become a marriage with no impediment but for the time it takes to get a license...
...And it forms alliances with religious bodies...
...Presumably, the position is that the state has a legitimate interest in banning same-sex marriage on the grounds that it offends many religious believers...
...They think, and often say, that until very recently marriage was a lifelong commitment by one man and one woman, sanctified by God and the state, for the purposes of companionship and the rearing of children...
...Indeed, the rise of divorce in recent years is probably connected to women's social and political empowerment more than to any other factor...
...The reasons why a state liberalized its laws were complex, but at least some of them were economic: while couples lived out the residency requirement, they would spend money in the state...
...The marriage lasted six more unhappy years and then ended in divorce...
...If society really wants to defend traditional marriage, as it surely is entitled to do and probably ought to do, many policies suggest themselves: family and medical leave...
...Given that they don't worry about this, and given that they don't want to allow marriage for gays and lesbians who have proven their good character, it is difficult to take this argument at face value...
...It seems, at least, to operate as an agent of recognition or the granting of dignity...
...Through his narrative (however biased in his brother's favor) we get a glimpse of something so familiar that it is difficult to believe it all happened around 50 B.C.E...
...We've always lived in a postlapsarian world...
...drug and alcohol counseling on demand...
...If we adopt Milton's view, we should not see divorce as expressing (necessarily) a falling away from high moral ideals but rather an unwillingness to put up with a relationship that does not fulfill, or at least seriously pursue, high ideals...
...This, I believe, is the sort of argument people are making when they assert that recognition of same-sex marriage defiles traditional marriage, when they talk about a "defense of marriage," and so forth...
...The thought must be that to associate traditional marriage with the sex acts of same-sex couples is to defile or contaminate it, in much the way that eating food served by a dalit (formerly called "untouchable") used to be taken by many people in India to contaminate the high-caste body...
...ARTICLES A right to marry...
...We can't think well about how to solve this problem, however, unless we first recognize the flaws in the mythic depiction of our own past...
...They all agree that the right to marry is an individual liberty right that also involves an equality component: a group of people can't be fenced out of that right without a very strong governmental justification...
...and the state even allows Amish children to be exempt from some generally applicable laws for reasons of religion...
...What's being said, it seems, is something like this: if the Metropolitan Opera auditions started giving prizes to pop singers of the sort who sing on American Idol, this would contaminate the opera world...
...parents often choose home schooling for that reason...
...Indeed, they are held to have a fundamental constitutional right to do so-so long as they want to marry someone of the opposite sex...
...Zablocki concerned the attempt of the state of Wisconsin to exclude from marriage parents who could not show that they had met their child support obligations...
...the Court states that "the right to marry is of fundamental importance for all individuals" and continues with the observation that "the decision to marry has been placed on the same level of importance as decisions relating to procreation, childbirth, child rearing, and family relationships...
...What the Constitution dictates, however, is that whatever the state decides to do in this area will be done on a basis of equality...
...The future of marriage looks, in one way, a lot like its past...
...The keys to the kingdom of the married might have been held only by private citizensreligious bodies and their leaders, families, other parts of civil society...
...Same-sex marriage is currently one of the most divisive political issues in our nation...
...Nor will all who like their conclusion, or even their reasoning, agree that it's good for courts to handle this issue, rather than democratic majorities...
...So, if a state forbade everyone to marry, that would presumably be unconstitutional...
...What is it...
...Most people who get married view that statement as a very important part of their lives...
...First, it raises an Establishment Clause problem: for, as we've seen, religions vary greatly in their attitude to same-sex marriage, and the state, following this argument, would be siding with one group of believers against another...
...What, then, about the claim that legalizing same-sex marriage would undermine the effort to defend or protect traditional marriage...
...It's not just that people began to think that women had a right to divorce on grounds of bodily cruelty, and that divorce of that sort was a good thing...
...Unlike private actors, however, the state doesn't have complete freedom to decide who may and may not marry...
...The politics of humanity asks us to stop viewing same-sex marriage as a source of taint or defilement to traditional marriage but, instead, to understand the human purposes of those who seek marriage and the similarity of what they seek to that which straight people seek...
...But that feeling rests on the religious judgments of the first argument...
...The California court notes that if states opposed to miscegenation had created a separate category called "transracial union," while still denying interracial couples the status of "marriage," we would easily see that this was no solution...
...How should we evaluate this argument...
...It is very difficult, in terms of the state's interest in procreation, to explain why the marriage of two heterosexual seventy-year-olds should be permitted and the marriage of two men or two women should be forbidden-all the more because so many samesex couples have and raise children...
...Their marriage was not recognized as legal in their home state of Virginia...
...What we're seeing today, as five states (Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, and, briefly, California) have legalized same-sex marriage, as others (California, and Vermont and Connecticut before their legalization of same-sex marriage) have offered civil unions with marriage-like benefits, and yet others (New York) have announced that, although they will not perform same-sex marriages themselves, they will recognize those legally contracted in other jurisdictions, is the same sort of competitive process-with, however, one important difference...
...The very recognition of same-sex marriage on a par with traditional marriage demeans traditional marriage, makes it less valuable...
...These Romans are often admired (and rightly so, I think) as good citizens, people who believed in civic virtue and tried hard to run a government based on that commitment...
...I believe all Americans, no matter their race, no matter their sex, no matter their sexual orientation, should have that same freedom to marry...
...States that had laws against miscegenation refused to recognize marriages between blacks and whites legally contracted elsewhere, and even criminalized those marriages...
...SAME-SEX MARRIAGE AND CONSTITUTIONAL LAW MARTHA NUSSBAUM Marriage is both ubiquitous and central...
...Loving, similarly, states that "the freedom to marry, or not marry, a person of another race resides with the individual and cannot be infringed by the state," grounding this conclusion in the Due Process clause as well as the Equal Protection clause...
...Martha Nussbaum is Ernst Freund Distinguished Service Professor of Law and Ethics at the University of Chicago, appointed in Law, Philosophy, and Divinity...
...A second objection, and perhaps the one that is most often heard from thoughtful people, insists that the main purpose of state-sanctified marriage is procreation and the rearing of children...
...Norton, 2006...
...This is the question with which courts are currently wrestling...
...Impotence, lack of interest in sex, and refusal to allow intercourse may count as grounds for divorce, but they don't preclude marriage...
...Should it drop the expressive dimension and simply offer civil-union packages...
...FUTURE OF MARRIAGE What ought we to hope and work for, as a just future for families in our society...
...Whenever we see a nation that does allow the imposition of religiously grounded preferences on all citizens-as with some Israeli laws limiting activity on the Sabbath, and as with laws in India banning cow slaughter-we see a nation with a religious establishment, de jure or de facto...
...No group of people may be fenced out of this right without an exceedingly strong state justification...
...In short, as Hartog points out, marriage laws "became public packages of goods and services that competed against the public goods of other jurisdictions for the loyalty and the tax dollars of a mobile citizenry...
...Surrounded as I am now by wonderful children and grandchildren, not a day goes by that I don't think of Richard and our love, our right to marry, and how much it meant to me to have that freedom to marry the person precious to me, even if others thought he was the "wrong kind of person" for me to marry...
...Fried, who supports an end to sodomy laws and expresses considerable sympathy with same-sex couples, still thinks that marriage goes too far because of this idea of enforced approval...
...But much of the officially sanctioned marrying currently done in the United States is done on religious premises by religious personnel...
...I myself was quite shocked...
...WORKS CONSULTED FOR THIS ESSAY INCLUDE THE FOLLOWING: Nancy F. Cott, Public Vows: A History of Marriage and the Nation (Harvard University Press, 2000...
...As the California court put it, the right is not a right to a particular word, it is the right "to have their family relationship accorded dignity and respect equal to that accorded other officially recognized families...
...It would seem that the best way to think about the cases of incest and polygamy is that in these cases the state can meet its burden, by showing that policy considerations outweigh the individual's right, although it is not impossible to imagine that these judgments might change over time...
...If we turn to republican Rome, a society more like our own in basing marriage on an ideal of love and companionship, we find that this very ideal gave rise to widespread divorce, as both women and men sought a partner with whom they could be happy and share a common life...
...When we think this way, the issue ought to look like the miscegenation issue: as an exclusion we can no longer tolerate in a society pursuing equal respect and justice for all...
...That was not the case with competing divorce regimes: once legally divorced in any other U. S. state, the parties were considered divorced in their own...
...In general, the promiscuous recognition of low-level or non-serious contenders for an honor sullies the honor...
...More generally, there are a lot of things that a modern state does that people deeply dislike, often on religious grounds...
...The leaders of both major political parties appeared to endorse this position during the 2008 presidential campaign, although only a handful of states have legalized civil unions with material privileges equivalent to those of marriage...
...And yet these heroes did not live in a marital Eden...
...Certainly they are not caused by the recognition of same-sex marriage...
...For up-to-date discussion, follow this issue online at www.dissentmagazine.org...
...Part of life within a pluralistic society that values the nonestablishment of religion is an attitude of live and let live...
...Finally, the debate is not about the religious aspects of marriage...
...In other words, marriage is a fundamental liberty right of individuals, and because it is that, it also involves an equality dimension: groups of people cannot be fenced out of that fundamental right without some overwhelming reason...
...Second, is this issue one of due process or equal protection or a complex mixture of both...
...Certainly none would deny that gays and lesbians are capable of sexual intimacy...
...First of all, we may challenge it on the facts...
...Nor is the debate, at least currently, about the civil aspects of marriage: we are moving toward a consensus that same-sex couples and opposite-sex couples ought to enjoy equal civil rights...
...On the other side, however, it's clear that the right in question is not simply a right to be treated like others, barring group-based discrimination...
...Even if wives at times protested, they understood the practice as typical and ubiquitous...
...What does due process liberty mean in this case...
...We have not seen any that would supply government with a "compelling" state interest, and it seems likely, given Romer, that these arguments, motivated by animus, fail even the rational basis test...
...To begin with, Byrd's idea that lifelong monogamous marriage has been the norm throughout human history is just mistaken...
...Antimiscegenation judges, for example, referred to the will of God in arguing that racial mixing is unnatural...
...And what reasons are strong enough to override it...
...NOTE: This article was written before the California court ruling on Proposition 8 or the proposed vote in the New York State legislature...
...Long before Nevada became famous as a divorce haven, with its short residency requirement, other states assumed that role...
...To the extent that we choose workdays and holidays that coincide with the preferences of a religious majority, we bend over backward to be sensitive to the difficulties this may create for minorities...
...Marriages can exist even in cases where none of these is present, though such marriages are probably unhappy...
...The state prosecuted them, because interracial marriage was a felony in Virginia, and they were convicted...
...This simple economic explanation for the rise of divorce-combined with Milton's emphasis on people's need for emotional attunement and conversation-is much more powerful than the idea of a fall from ethical purity in explaining how we've moved from where we were to where we are today...
...It's like voting: there isn't a constitutional right to vote, as such...
...People will continue to unite, form families, have children, and, sometimes, split up...
...If, as historian Hendrik Hartog concludes about the nineteenth century, "Marital mobility marked American legal and constitutional life," it marked, far more, the daily lives of Americans who did not litigate their separations...
...Like all fantasies of purity, this one masks a reality that is far more varied and complex...
...rights in adoption and custody...
...Preserving tradition all by itself cannot be such an interest: "the justification of `tradition' does not explain the classification, it just repeats it...
...This argument contains many difficulties...
...There would appear to be no constitutional barrier to the decision of a state to get out of the expressive game altogether, going over to a regime of civil unions or, even more extremely, to a regime of private contract for marriages, in which the state plays the same role it plays in any other contractual process...
...Let's consider, however, the arguments on the other side...
...Pomponia however answered in our hearing, "I am a guest here myself...
...Sometimes this argument is put a little differently: marriage is about the protection of children, and we know that children do best in a home with one father and one mother, so there is a legitimate public interest in supporting an institution that fulfills this purpose...
...LEGAL ISSUES What, then, of people who seek to marry someone of the same sex...
...As it stands, the procreation argument looks two-faced, approving in heterosexuals what it refuses to tolerate in same-sex couples...
...For many if not most people, moreover, marriage is not a trivial matter...
...At this point, then, the questions become, Who has this liberty/equality right to marry...
...Being able to make it, and to make it freely (not under duress) is taken to be definitive of adult human freedom...
...Such measures have a clear relationship to the stresses and strains facing traditional marriage...
...generous support for marital counseling and mental health treatment...
...Turner v. Safley concerned marriages between inmates, most serving long terms, and nonincarcerated people, marriages that could not be consummated...
...Religions may refuse to marry people who are eligible for state marriage and they may also agree to marry people who are ineligible for state marriage...
...If we're looking for a historical parallel to the anxieties associated with same-sex marriage, we can find it in the history of views about miscegenation...
...Nor do people talk or think that way...
...At one extreme, it seems clear that, under existing law, the state that offers marriage is not required to allow it to polygamous unions...
...These opinions will not convince everyone...
...What, precisely, is the argument here...
...They do not try to get lawmakers to make such marriages illegal, and they neither say nor feel that such marriages are immoral or undermine their own...
...Clearly, the answer to the third question is, and has always been, no...
...employment counseling and financial support for those under stress during the present economic crisis...
...The state's involvement raises fundamental issues about equality of political and civic standing...
...Same-sex couples are not like B-grade singers or cheating athletes-or at least no more so than heterosexual couples...
...In our own nation, as historians of marriage emphasize, a social norm of monogamous marriage was salient, from colonial times onward...
...Because of that unique status, it is fundamental to individual self-definition, autonomy, and the pursuit of happiness...
...On the other hand, those changes are best seen as a true realization of the promise contained in our constitutional guarantees...
...Most of the cases concern attempts by the state to forbid a class of marriages...
...All across our country, in every region, every social class, every race and ethnicity, every religion or nonreligion, people get married...
...Marriage laws have always been state laws (despite recurrent attempts to legislate a national law of marriage and divorce...
...In Loving, the Court calls marriage "one of the basic civil rights of man...
...Convicted felons, divorced parents who fail to pay child support, people with a record of domestic violence or emotional abuse, delinquent taxpayers, drug abusers, rapists, murderers, racists, anti-Semites, other bigots-all can marry if they choose...
...Our analysis of the constitutional issues does not dictate specific answers to these questions, but it does constrain the options we ought to consider...
Vol. 56 • July 2009 • No. 3
