THE TALKIES: Wives and Husbands

...The movie was a gross libel against marriage, but one that was wide ly accepted at the time because of the influ ence of ideological feminism, which had adapted Marxist class analysis to the domestic sphere and so interpreted love and loyalty in terms of power relationships...

...It struck me as an interesting pairing because the two represent opposite and contradictory extremes in the movies' treatment of marriage...

...I hope it will not be necessary to explain that this idea of marriage does not imply that the writers of romantic comedy are naive about real marriages...

...oit James Bowman is a resident scholar at the Ethics and Public Policy Center, media essayist for the New Criterion, and The American Spectator's movie critic...

...Maybe it's because the Alzheimer's gives it a soap-opera-ish, disease-of-theweek feel or because the flashback story of the highborn ladywho falls for a boy from the wrong side of the tracks seems at once trite and remote from our own experience...

...It would be nice to think that for such a portrait we weren't driven to the Holocaust, every artist's all-purpose background setting to impart weight and seriousness and reality to his material...

...shout the women, knowing that they do so at the risk of death, and we can't help wondering a bit at ourselves for the ease with which we make the mental transition from finding it natural to regard husbands as the objects of such devotion to accepting them as the boors and tyrants that they are in The Stepford Wives...

...Rudnick and Oz treat the story's exaggeration of the 1950s housewifely ideal as a sort of gay in-joke and introduce a gay man (Roger Bart) into the crinolined and scented sorority...

...I don't think so, though Miss von Trotta may be suggesting something of that possibility when she notices the absence of Aryan men keening for their Jewish wives...

...Maybe we can look beyond Stepford in more ways than one...

...We miss that if we turn instead to what we imagine might come after...

...Or maybe it's the lack of chemistry between this youthful version of the lovers, played by Rachel McAdams and Ryan Gosling...

...It is also true, however, that stories about marriages¡ªas opposed to courtships¡ªoften borrow fromromantic comedy the image of marriage as the perfected human state as their default position...

...But we must take our watchable movies as we find them, and that's how we find Rosenstrasse, the Movie of the Month...

...The result is a feeling of glib sentimentality rather than a genuinely moving portrait of a marriage...

...Can this marriage be saved...

...The devotion of the robotic Stepford wives became the iconic death's head expressing the terror felt by many women, and not only doctrinaire feminists, at the self-surrender demanded of them by traditional marriage...

...It always seemed to me that such a turn in the discussion was fruitless and speculative and above all missed the point...

...That was the point of the original Stepford Wives...

...Of course the question, as a mere hypothetical, can never be answered, but the film ends with a wedding, which can only signify the hopefulness that Lena's example of marital loyalty is meant to inspire in us...

...she asks...

...The mock horror which this character inspires is no more to be taken seriously than Bette Midler made up to look like Donna Reed...

...One such is The Notebook by Nick Cassavetes who casts his mother, Gena Rowlands, opposite James Garner as a woman lost in the mists of senile demen tia...

...THE TALKIES JAMES BOWMAN Wives and Husbands S CHANCE AND THE UNPREDICTABLE SCHEDULING Of critics' screenings would have it, I sat down to watch Rosenstrasse by Margarethe von Trotta just about 13 hours after I had got up from a screening of Paul Rudnick and Frank Oz's remake of the 1975 classic The Stepford Wives, even though the former was to have opened seven weeks after the latter...

...Back in 1943, in Germany as everywhere else, women had no choice but to be much more dependent on their husbands...

...Was, then, what those poor women were crying out for merely the return of their breadwinners, so that they could enjoy a better standard of living...

...In her case, the caricature is the high-powered network executive dressed in black that she is supposed to be before her transformation...

...The movie's heart is in the right place, but somehow the emotional wattage of such promising material is surprisingly low...

...There is, it's true, a kind of doll-like quality to Nicole Kidman's beautywhich for just a moment almost manages to cut through the thick wrapping of irony in which the film is swathed...

...Sometimes, that is, we continue to find it convenient to treat marriage as it has generally been treated in classic literature, and especially in romantic comedy, namely as the image of earthly felicity, the end of all stories in which boy meets girl, boy loses girl etc.¡ªbecause we are quite prepared to suspend our disbelief, forget what we know of real marriages, and take it for granted that what must follow from "I do" is inevitably...

...they wanted to know...

...How old hat that now seems...

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...They never really have a chance to grow up but go from puppy love, almost, to extreme old age without anything in between to account for the strength of the tie between them...

...Romantic comedies end with weddings, or the prospect of weddings, for the same reason that tragedies end with deaths: because these things give the appropriate meaning and fulfillment to the kind of human behavior that has gone before...

...and they lived happily ever after...

...Don't ask me whether or not it's progress if we no longer see marriage as the death of the spirit but only as a joke...

...Is it just a matter of the difference in milieu...

...She looks as much at home as a Stepford wife as Roger Bart does...

...But any deeper meaning that such a curious inversion might impart to the film is lost as she and the rest of the robots are quickly hustled off the stage for a bizarrely happy ending...

...Now the Stepford wife has become a figure of fun¡ªat least if we are to judge by the remake...

...Who would want them back...

...Garner's devoted husband reads to her a love story from the 1940s that turns out to be¡ªI don't think I can be giving away anything so clearly signaled as this is¡ªtheir own, hoping to jog her almost expiring memory...

...It helps, too, that it is based on a true story of a group of Aryan women married to Jewish men who, when their formerly protected husbands were arrested by the Gestapo at the beginning of 1943, stood outside the place of their detention in the Rosenstrasse, Berlin, in the dead of winter until they shamed even Goebbels (Martin Wuttke) into letting the men go back to their wives...

...For him, life in the midst of Stepfordian femininity is very heaven, while his animatronic version is a gay Republican candidate for the state assembly in a Brooks Brothers suit who says, "I believe in Stepford, America and the power of prayer...

...TOT THAT THE MOVIES, perhaps as recognizing the hopeful character of American audiences, don't contin ue to make appeals to an older idea of mar riage as lifelong love and attachment, but there is often some thing a little off about such films...

...The ideal makes an excellent contrasting background against which to play the drama of the real...

...They had their careers to think of," explains her heroine, Lena Fischer, who in old age (Doris Schade) is trying to account for the heroism of her younger self (Katja Riemann) to Hannah (Maria Schrader), the American-born daughter of a girl she had also saved...

...It created a car icature of the ideal (as it was still widely understood in those days) in order to show how destructive it was to real people, and especially real women...

...Give us our husbands back...

...This child (Svea Lohde) had been the product of a mixed marriage who lost her own Jewish mother to the death camps after her gentile father had abandoned them...

...When I was a teacher, it was not unusual for classes studying, say, Shakespeare's Twelfth Night to want to speculate about the kind of conversations over the breakfast cornflakes that Viola and Orsino might have had after they had been ten years married...

...Shaken by hearing this story for the first time, Hannah asks her own fiance (Fedja Van Huet) for reassurance: "Would you protect me...