I've Done So Well - Why Do I Feel So Bad?

Weber, Carlo A.

ethnics and new ethnics, nature and the To the extent that "civilization" aberration of bishops. (Not incidentally, moral sense. creates the great...

...5. Location of the headquarters of general business offices of the publishers: The Roanoke Rapids woman later de- clinical terms...
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...In a style neither abrasive nor Now that in itself is surely not an untion without consulting woman...
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...Ernestine Brooks describes her sales: 1,415...
...She relies almost entirely on unthinkable decision to join the Amal// WAS fourteen when I started work- the words of the mill workers she writes ing in the mills, and thirty-six years about...
...2. half conspiratorial, and said, "My hus- all...
...Estate of Oho L. Spaeth...
...That is especially noteworthy, hand, enjoys none of these supports...
...at the very point when the woman has MW 4:35-5:50 PM "arrived" at that executive level previ- of Chicago Religion and Politics in ously regarded as an impenetrable male Christian History enclave...
...Actual number of copies of a '68...
...The long-range fallout from don't see it the way you do, so I must be fashion...
...New Milford, Conn...
...For they are sentences that have adapted the Gospel to abortion, another publishing innovation...
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...D. Free distribution by mail...
...sive than those of the men...
...Not incidentally, moral sense...
...brown lung disease, by breathing in cot- 1. Title of publication: COMMONWEAL...
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...about the oppressive male, and, as comthis sense they exhibit a good deal more The book is also scholarly, in the sense petent therapists, restrict themselves to wisdom than did the male editor of that every thesis is buttressed by an ap- placing responsibility back upon their Commonweal in submitting this book to a propriate selection of vignettes from the clients to bring about some change in male reviewer, or indeed did the male reviewer in accepting the book for re- GRADUATE THEOLOGY view...
...recognize themselves in the pages of the gentle support of the always reliable vignettes did some offense to my comthis helpful book...
...The ease it is, makes for very sharp and telling with which some Christian communions ArE SEEM to have fallen heir of late to illustrations...
...2. Returns from over town the same way...
...But population, it would seem to be...
...The notorious absence of a sup- For application or information contact: Rev...
...She winked at...
...The very brevity of the...
...The authors And yet, despite these common ex- authors for not being more comprehenare always optimistic and straightfor- periences, the authors are not taking aim sive than their experience, especially ward, almost as unbiased reporters of the at anyone...
...In have to resolve their paradoxes...
...But one can scarcely fault jections and overstatements...
...But Caslo A. Weber the book, and the procedure, sustained as there may be an inner logic...
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...PROGRAM To be sure, the book is written on the premise that our society is still male- Frei SPRING SEMESTER BEGINS Study oriented...
...a basic reminder of God as Mother, (though short-lived, I hope) trend, and of many cases...
...The sperately worried over, sometimes oppressiveness and insensitivity of its au- Catholic concern about abortion is not an scolded but never abandoned...
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...Kathleen Casey Craig...
...He doesn't even circulation: 17.800...
...Clare tile industry...
...For some reason, it seemed to me that tences like I'm OK, You're OK, It is not hard to elaborate on the the essays by women were more persua- Everytime'1 Say No, I Feel Guilty, and dynamics involved in phrases of this sort...
...I can recall once being responsible for everything and powerless much on too minute matters, and change required to create catchy titles for sample to effect change," "Getting sick isn't so seems glacial at times, but to take the essays, as part of a College English as- bad...
...They astutely avoid the temptation of artillery . . . in the arsenal of Women's If there is a problem with the book, it making unfortunate comparisons or Lib," a remark which seems sadly off the may be that the leading question "why analogies by referring to similar situa- mark...
...You'll just have to Commonweal: 572...
...Location of known office of publica1977 stockholders meeting in New York...
...8. Known bondholand in telling the truth about our lives...
...Most and the authors do that in each case simperhaps more orderly and rational, but I recently, I came across a real winner: ply and unobtrusively: The style is telling think Sidney Callahan is closer to the Ain't I A Wonder-Ain't You A Won- and the authors do not get in the way of truth when she praises the church for der?enough to make an editor gasp...
...No blame is placed, my own, I don't believe the authors per- well" is not really answered-nor even when it is manifestly deserved, and ceived their work as "heavy artillery" in perhaps can it be, apart from the indithe responsibility for constructive change anyone's arsenal, apart from that collec- vidual case...
...I got almost crazy in tence title, if for nothing else...
...E. Total distribution (sum of C and D): 20,106...
...The author does not rely We hear black and white textile workers Doubleday/Anchor, $10.95, 240 pp...
...McBrien ngtes a generation of quite deserve...
...my rather adverse reaction to it all, I was explicit and brief case vignettes to hamAt the risk of making a romantic sexist not very positively disposed by the title mer home the point that women have faux pas, it does seem to me that the of the book I am here being asked to been coerced into indirect and often culture of women has traditionally been review-and therefore thoroughly un- devious ways of expressing anger, more "of the earth" than that of men...
...Assuming that we are now past the issue Psalms and Wisdom THEOLOGY Literature of "equal pay for equal work" (which Rev...
...copies printed (Net in separate beds so I could sleep at Press Run): 22,363...
...carrier or...
...former, it sounds suspect in another way these transcendent objects with a kind of The Catholic church has maintained to the contemporary,,, "liberated' ex- sanctity and eternity which they do not intimate relations with civilization (not Catholic...
...I had, however, cliches come off with freshness and them in casual corners of the mar- some sense of fragmentation as indipunch...
...In any When I asked my bossman if I that then leads to the further question event, it is clearly time for a book on the could go, he said I couldn't leave (and hopefully another' book from the difficulties males now experience with my machines...
...Any male author daring to chines going, you can't go to the which may take the prize for longest sen- write such an equal however, would be bathroom...
...women, this may not be an issue any book first...
...Sewickley, Pa...
...Workers at Stevens are often unable to single issue published nearest to filing date: . Total number copies printed (Net Press Run): 22,000...
...New York, NY 10016...
...For some gravely amiss were he not to read this that job...
...C. Total paid woman about no union...
...D. Free distribution by mail, carrier or other means, sample band, Earl, is sitting back there off the vens for "alienation of affection...
...Rather, I had the the content of the book itself, as accurate him, pretends to adore him, and, under experience of peering at people through and significant 2s that might be, is the appropriate circumstances, lunches with peepholes, seeing only parts of them, authors' approach-sensitive and sophis- him...
...Management and Circulation (act of on labor relations," 62-year-old Lucy Lucy Taylor contracted byssinosis, or August 12, 1970: Section 3685, Title 39, united States Code...
...G. Total (sum of E and F should equal net son till he lost his leg in an accident in press run shown in A): 22,363...
...One is BAD...
...have sentences instead of titles, sen- exactly how I feel...
...Humans do not create always with benefit of clergy...
...That Christianity appears tainted to the Re- science-it can mislead us into investing game may not be well played...
...6. Names and For the last ten or fifteen years, addresses of publisher, editor and managing editor...
...3. Frequency of issue: Biweekly, except dent James D. Finley at the company's ton dust in the mills...
...A recent advertisement when they make no claim to generalize events that take place in their offices...
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...Stevens workers in of being torn from their roots and forced WORKERS Roanoke Rapids, site of the labor move- to leave home in search of work if they Mimi Conway ment's historic breakthrough in Southern are blacklisted in their own community...
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...Rome may fret too venting them...
...6525 North Sheridan Road TTh 4:35-5:50 PM tained over many years, is a case in point...
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...C. Total paid circulation: 19,081...
...One overseer sent his wife home without pay for going to the bathroom on company time, to show he was above Experts in experience favoritism...
...claimed that the book provided "heavy beyond it...
...There is no doubt, as the fly-leaf ketplace...
...men may delude them- thors admire this consorting with culture, Mary McCarthy, Kareem Abdul-Jabbar) selves into believing too much in their but finally (to change the relation) who bemoan "Catholicism's moralistic cultural creations...
...Woman described and Rapids...
...scribed herself and other brown lung vic- Edward S. Skillin, 232 Madison Ave., New York, NY 10016...
...Illinois 60626 A man promoted to executive status is Christian Spirituality: History Rev...
...E. Total distribution (sum of C and D): 18,825...
...tims about to testify at an Occupational she's coughed every night...
...The woman executive, on the other when I very much wanted a more inteticated...
...compounded by that of being very much stricted to middle-class, mostly CaucaOne simply does not find here such pro- alone in her role...
...he enjoys the unquestioned vidual client episodes appeared and (generally a source of dubious reliability) right to take Wednesday afternoon off for sometimes re-appeared to exemplify difinforms us, that "millions of women will sailing or golf...
...As prepared for the quality that lies within it.power-striving, fear, sexuality and, in Shaw says in Man and Superman, since And it is a book of superior and un- general, their point of view, all of which man was saved the awful labor of gesta- usual quality, both in content and in they were not able to express directly...
...thority figures...
...232 Madison Ave...
...Total (sum ofEand talk to him...
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...and above all, he enjoys ferent issues...
...we've finally had to sleep during preceding 12 months: A. Total no...
...quoted was Virginia Davis) Edward S. Skillin, Publisher...
...3 spinning other means, sample complimentary and other free copies: like having you in the house...
...There was even a munality...
...Mary Peter McGinty, C.S.J...
...there's a lot of strength in it," "I world seriously is not to be a glass of signment...
...Frederick Moriarty, S.J...
...he enjoys the company of 12 October 1979: 571 their attitudes, perceptions, life styles...
...7. Owner(Ifowned by a corporation, its coughing...
...It is fashion-whether in hair that assignment is that I now have a col- wrong," "If I'm good, I'll be liked" styles or life styles-which is anti- lection of zippy titles for books I never bring the immediate response: "That's worldly since fashion knows only sheen, wrote...
...And the result is a compelling laboring in the mills makes me an expert one, for they have much to say...
...He worked up therefor Stephen- There are hundreds of people all unaccounted, spoiled after printing: 1,135...
...I asked him what I same authors, or another team as compe- women who have successfully ac- was supposed to do, and he said he tent as they), "Since, I now feel fine complished the goals Drs...
...Ed McConville nor does she set herself up as an expert on Some mill workers talk about their once her subject...
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...None...
...Publisher...
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...B. Paid Circulation: 1. But he said he don't want to talk to no leave their machines during the course of Sales through dealers and carriers, street vendors and counter a shift...
...textiles in 1974...
...I've gone to bed a thousand Dower...
...And the message, drawn directly, without remaining so feminine and motherly, so, as a consequence of this growing tampering, from the records of their own...
...Unless you're about myself, why doesn't the male in Matteson encourage them to achieve...
...F. I. Office use, left over, kitchen...
...The auexplicit ex-Catholics (Phil Donahue, eternal objects...
...we are not really), I have noted in my MW 6:00-7:15 PM own work with women executives and Moral Teaching of the New their experiences of stress, that male at Loyola Testament dominance can be insidiously increased Rev...
...Drs...
...a title Any offers...
...They use a myriad of rather as well as wrapped in transcendence...
...and grated view...
...Presi- September 27, 1979...
...ders, mortgagees and other security holders owning or holding Mimi Conway takes Lucy Taylor at the other half worried that she's I per cent or more of total amount of bails, mortgages or other securities...
...They wouldn't For they are the only ones who can and for the women in the authors' client even let you go to the bathroom...
...And so it is, though now in JANUARY 14, 1980 ENDS MAY 2, 1980 more advanced and pernicious forms...
...Then when she gets name and address must be stated and also immediately thereun(OSHA) hearing in Washington on estab- der the names and addresses of stockholders owning or holding lishing safe cotton dust levels in the tex- quiet, I start to worry that she's I per cent or more of total amount of stock): Commonweal Publishing Co., Inc., New York, NY 10016...
...creates the great objects which transcend it is surely odd to cast males exclusively If this "worldliness" of Catholic individual life-states, cultures, art and as officiators of a Mother Church...
...I'm thinking of suing J.P...
...Managing Editor, Peter Steinfels, 232 Madison Ave., Health and Safety Administration the time she gets me up with her New York, NY 10016...
...less because of her coughing, and 20 East 81st St., New York, NY 10028...
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...New York...
...He could tell you a lot if he would...
...At the risk of some projection of do I feel so bad when I have done so tions'involving men...
...Richard Costigan, S.J...
...Workers tell the author of their fear of RISE CONNA RISE: her word in Rise Gonna Rise, her look at being fired for union activity, their fear A PORTRAIT OF SOUTHERN TEXTILE the lives of J.P...
...change, in the therapeutic setting...
...The coexist within Catholicism in something sentence-title theme is continued through better than a state of mere hypocrisy...
...1 certify that My bossman told me, "If you the statements made by me above are correct and complete...
...But, 1,025...
...Even God asks a favor of dren to be admired and admonished, defear of hell, the rejection of pleasure, the woman to participate in history...
...longer, but I suspect that it is for many, swallow fast...
...Returns from news agents: 1,145...
...I also got the impression, since the subject matter has lent itself in the stress she experience as a function of perhaps incorrectly, that the client popuother works ,to a complex of abrasive, the responsibility of her position is thus lation was greatly, if not entirely, redefensive and extra-punitive postures...
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...Phrases like "I can be emoone wonder whether these ever were rarefied art form developed around in- tional, but I musn't upset anyone," "I'm serious issues at all...
...Juan Lozano, C.M.F...
...dilemmas in the areas of equality, selftempted to use Wittgenstein's statement: Celia Halas & Roberta Matteson esteem, affiliation, dependency, guilt, "This game is played...
...We'll go room at the Rosemary Mill in Roanoke Office use, left over, unaccounted, spoiled after printing: 2030.2...
...F,should equal net press run shown in A): 22.000...
...sian women...
...smart enough to keep all these mamy life feel fine.about me...
...port system for women executives, anal- TTh 6:00-7:15 PM ogous to that carefully evolved for men Sr...
...And a tendentious (a factor in itself unusual), familiar theme, but it is expressed here fine mess he has made of that...
...Somehow emotionality, power-striving, psychomoralism and worldliness seem to Macmillan, $10.95, 304 pp...
...TTh 7:25-8:40 PM be a success...
...William Pfaff, Paris...
...B. Paid circulation: 1. Sales through "She leaned toward me, half impish, dealers and carriers, street vendors and counter sales: 1,356...
...female secretary, who nurtures him, pulsive need as a' herapist to follow an But perhaps even more notable than praises him, covers for him, protects enfolding case in toto...
...Half Editor, James O'Gara, 232 Madison Ave., New York...
...The men were other such inelegant constructions...
...women traditionally Mother Church appears to regard both hammerlock on the psyche, the Jan- have the fundamental sense of human great states and small folk as human chilsenism of its sexual ethic, the pervasive creation...
...tion, "he went out and invented civiliza- manners...
...Edward S. Skillin, 232 perts, but we are experts in experience, times like that, half the ntght sleep- Madison Ave...
...Halas and Matteson offer a most with such clarity and economy of word Commonweal: 570 and interpretation that even phrases that other male executives in a regular and authors' clinical experience, all narrated might in other contexts be considered exclusive way, and does business with clearly and pleasantly...
...Average number of copies each issue died...
...Rise Gonna Rise don't get your 'chines right, then you don't eat...
...Ste- Mail subscriptions: 17,725...
...complimentary and other free copies: 1.025...
...We are not technical ex- dead...
...One reason is that the auis placed unequivocally upon the women tion of strategies which women must thors carefully avoid the trap of talking with whom the authors are consulting...
...on professional or academic expertise, warily coming to accept one another...

Vol. 106 • October 1979 • No. 18


 
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